Recognizing need before it becomes a crisis

Practical wisdom on building the relationships that allow a deacon to notice difficulty early, to work alongside the elders, and to give help that preserves dignity rather than causing embarrassment.

Outline

• Visiting when nothing is wrong, so that you are welcome when something is.
• Working with the elders without confusing the offices.
• Money: assessing need, setting terms and keeping confidence.
• Helping in ways that strengthen a household rather than fostering dependence.

For discussion

1. What prevents people in our churches from asking for help?
2. How does one offer help to a proud man?